Many young Brahmins are inclined to seek intermarriage with a family within the same caste. However, modern youth are not so inclined to arranged marriages and would rather choose a partner for themselves. If you belong to this group, you must take the necessary preparations before venturing into the uncertain world of finding yourself a matchAny Some Tips Here:
1. Know what your preferences are.
You could start by listing those that are most important to you- technical details such as income range, profession, age, family background or status. You can then think about your more personal preferences such as physical appearance and Manapporutham- the persons values, priorities, set of beliefs and his likes, dislikes, and hobbies.
2 . If you are using a website or some other matchmaking agency in India, prepare your own bio-data.
It wont be just you who has preferences, and you would want to make the information thorough enough to give your prospects a clear picture of you. Also present a horoscope because a match is also made on the Brahmin matrimony belief system.
3. Having a photograph of yourself is a good idea.
People are most likely to have preferences about physical appearance. It does not mean that you should try to touch-up the photo or submit a picture of somebody else who is more attractive. If you are serious about finding a lifelong match, you might as well let them see who you really are. Also, submit a recent picture, preferably one taken not more than a year ago
4. Moolam and Ayilyam stars do not mean that these people are Untouchable or dangerous. But you might want to keep an open mind. You may have a sect preference but there may be some very ideal people from a different sect.
5. Dont immediately believe all the data provided by your prospect.
It may be falsified just to make a favorable impression. Assess it with objectivity. If possible, see the prospective match personally. Also call the persons references to verify the data.
6. When you two finally meet, make sure that the venue you agree upon is appropriate.
It should allow for ample social interaction but not at a deserted venue. You never really know what you are getting, and you should be cautious.
7. Dont assume that the other persons expectations on Brahmin matrimony are the same as yours. You may both be Brahmins but you may have different expected terms for marriage.
If you dont find your ideal match right away, dont be disheartened. India is a big place, and the right partner is out there somewhere. Be patient and keep searching without compromising your top priorities
You could start by listing those that are most important to you- technical details such as income range, profession, age, family background or status. You can then think about your more personal preferences such as physical appearance and Manapporutham- the persons values, priorities, set of beliefs and his likes, dislikes, and hobbies.
2 . If you are using a website or some other matchmaking agency in India, prepare your own bio-data.
It wont be just you who has preferences, and you would want to make the information thorough enough to give your prospects a clear picture of you. Also present a horoscope because a match is also made on the Brahmin matrimony belief system.
3. Having a photograph of yourself is a good idea.
People are most likely to have preferences about physical appearance. It does not mean that you should try to touch-up the photo or submit a picture of somebody else who is more attractive. If you are serious about finding a lifelong match, you might as well let them see who you really are. Also, submit a recent picture, preferably one taken not more than a year ago
4. Moolam and Ayilyam stars do not mean that these people are Untouchable or dangerous. But you might want to keep an open mind. You may have a sect preference but there may be some very ideal people from a different sect.
5. Dont immediately believe all the data provided by your prospect.
It may be falsified just to make a favorable impression. Assess it with objectivity. If possible, see the prospective match personally. Also call the persons references to verify the data.
6. When you two finally meet, make sure that the venue you agree upon is appropriate.
It should allow for ample social interaction but not at a deserted venue. You never really know what you are getting, and you should be cautious.
7. Dont assume that the other persons expectations on Brahmin matrimony are the same as yours. You may both be Brahmins but you may have different expected terms for marriage.
If you dont find your ideal match right away, dont be disheartened. India is a big place, and the right partner is out there somewhere. Be patient and keep searching without compromising your top priorities
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